Warning: This post isn’t my normal inspiring, motivating, uplifting kind of post–it’s pretty depressing in fact so if you’d rather not feel sad, you might want to skip along the cyber highway and wait to read my next post….

Wow. Time flies by so fast….

Where I’ve Been

I haven’t forgotten about the contest I told you about– honestly. Circumstances beyond my control have kept my focus away from blogging lately. I mentioned in my last post that I’ve recently lost two cousins (only in their thirties). Well, since that posting, I’ve lost a third cousin (only 28). Major shocker. I grew up with two of these cousins and was around them all the time, so they were more than just a “cousin” or “relative”, they were extremely special to me.

I went to school with the cousin who was 32. He just didn’t wake up one morning. It was his heart. The 36-year-old cousin lost his life in a car accident, and the 28-year-old cousin who just passed away also lost her life in a car accident. She was like a little sister to me. She was so special and we were so much alike. I’ve been devastated and have been at a total loss for blog posts. I haven’t even been writing/blogging for editors/clients since she passed away. I’ve taken some time to try to absorb all of this. I mean, one death is one thing, but two? That was hard enough. And then a third one? And for her to be such a beautiful, special soul? That’s when I realized I had to step away from the page and just let it sit there blank. The Muse–and my creative inspiration–has taken a flying leap and deserted me. But that’s okay for now. I am relishing the quiet moments. I need them. I crave them. I am using these quiet moments to find strength, hope, and healing. I’m using them to find renewal and to fill back up on the energy I need so I can move forward. This has all been so exhausting, it’s unreal. The bad news, the services, seeing my family members and even my cousins’ friends hurting so badly, missing their loved ones so much…. And realizing I’ll never see my cousins again–not on holidays, not on family visits, and there’ll be no more opportunities to send a birthday card….

Life, Death, and What Comes After

I won’t pretend to be a genius and concoct fancy images of the after life for you to figure out. Those of you who have followed me from the beginning of this blog and who have become close to me along the cyber highway and my freelance journey know that I am a Christian. No, I don’t say it in every blog post or on every social media site. I don’t try to force my beliefs on others and I have found that even those of you who don’t believe in God at all respect me (and my walk with God) because of that. Am I ashamed? No. And those of you who know me, know that too. Some people (okay, a lot of people) disagree with me on that. They think I should shout from the rooftops that I’m a Christian. I firmly believe what my Grandmother always taught me: actions speak louder than words. I can say I’m something until I lose my voice, but if I show what I am by my actions, then you’ll know without a doubt. Simple, eh?

So, anyway… I do believe there is life after death but the life after death I’m referring to here is on this side of the world. I’m talking about those of us who are left here to pick up the pieces and to wonder why: Why did they have to die so young? Why couldn’t they have lived and why couldn’t have God taken someone else? Someone who did horrible things and who was a horrible person who hurt people? But He didn’t. He took my cousins. All of them had children. Now their children are minus a parent.

What to Do?

Sometimes there just aren’t any answers. Sometimes we have to leave it at that. We don’t know everything….

So, what do we do? What can we do? We can wake up each morning as the sun kisses our face or the rain pelts the window or the dark clouds hover over our homes and be truly thankful in our hearts that we are alive and can gobble up all the goodness that day will bring! Don’t think there’ll be any goodness in a new day? Then be the person who brings goodness to the world!

Love your family and friends as if there were no tomorrow. Remember: tomorrow may never come for some of us. We aren’t guaranteed to wake up when we go to sleep, or to make it to our destination alive when we hop in our car–or someone else’s–and drive away.

Don’t take the people you love for granted. Don’t put off until tomorrow what you can do today: let them know how much you appreciate them, tell them you love them instead of just assuming they already know it, buy them a beautiful (or even silly) card “just because”, make time for your loved ones–even if you don’t think you can.

There are definitely potholes in the roads of life. Nevermind them. Stop to smell the roses and enjoy the journey as best you can. Cherish every moment that you breathe. Live so that you won’t have regrets. Forgive and forget–even if it hurts. Love yourself enough to love those around you. Don’t wait until it’s too late and you can’t…

I leave you with this thought: life is a book.

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Michele L. Tune

Aspiring writers fantasize about writing articles that please editors or potential clients. When you hit send, you cross your fingers or say a prayer – or both! – and hope for the best. But when you receive a response filled with negative news of a rejection (or worse, no response at all), it can seem hopeless; like you’ll never make it as a freelance writer. You might even think of throwing in the towel and giving up totally. You don’t have to give up your dreams and ambitions of being a freelance writer! Follow these steps and learn how to write a quality article that will leave potential editors and clients salivating for more!

1. Write from your heart. If you don’t put your heart and soul into your writing, your words will fall flat, won’t have a smooth flow, and won’t stir the emotions of your reader.
2. Brush up on basic grammar and punctuation rules. You want to impress potential clients and editors with your writing skills. You’re a professional, remember? You wouldn’t go to the office in your gym clothes, so put on your thinking cap and play the part of a writing pro!
3. Write more, write often. The more you write, the better you’ll become – if you have any talent, that is. Some people aren’t born to write (just like some aren’t born to sing). We all have our calling. I couldn’t ride a wave if I had to, but surfers are one with their board.
   
4. Read. This is something a lot of writers fall away from once the gigs start pouring in. Not every writer does this, but it happens. It’s been said that the more you read, the better your writing will be. Why? Because you’ll become familiar with the way words should flow, sentences should come together, and you’ll have correct grammar and punctuation drammed into your head continuously. So, even if you don’t possess a degree in English or Writing, you’ll be educating yourself and polish your skills while doing something that is probably already your favorite pastime.
5. Sleep on it. This is my most successful tip yet, I do believe. There’s nothing I love more than to pour my heart and very soul onto blank pages into the wee hours and save my work, knowing I can rest peacefully and be proud of the work I accomplished. The next morning, I go back into the file and proofread the piece. If it needs polishing, I polish. I usually save it again and go back a couple hours later – maybe even after lunch. At this time, I give it a final good read. If I’m satisfied, I hit send.

My editors and clients are pleased with my work and I know it’s because of the above tips. For example, just the other day I applied for a writing gig I was interested in on Deb Ng’s Freelance Writing Jobs. I heard from the client within 4 hours! Not only did he give me an assignment, he was thrilled with my work (turned in before deadline) and I’ve already scored ongoing work! (The pay is awesome and it’s on topics I’m passionate about.) And, another writing gig I applied to recently (found it at Freelance Writing Jobs, too), I heard back from the potential client within a few minutes!

In my next post, I’ll share tips for sprucing up your e-mails when you apply for writing gigs so you’ll get a better response. It’s fun, I promise! But you don’t want to miss my tips so be sure to subscribe so you can increase your own freelance writing success!

Until next time, keep writing the cyber highway!